JOY of LOVE

One day someone will come and show you that love is peace, calm, and home... they will look at your messy hair with sparkle in their eyes, they will love your morning face, they will want to stay.

It will be simple, it will be easy, and maybe in this moment you will doubt everything, my advice: do not activate defense mode.

Those who have never witnessed true love cannot define what they live, they may doubt the other, or find peace uncomfortable, but the truth is: when we are used to toxicity, simplicity seems strange, too calm, too simple. The right person will help you to understand that love doesn't hurt. A true relationship does not limit you; it empowers you to grow inside and out. Love does not require pain or suffering; those who hurt you cannot occupy the most sacred place in your heart.

Stop begging for someone to stay, it's the same as begging someone to hurt you repeatedly on the bleeding wound.

Love resides in the freedom to always choose the same person; love live in giving, knowing that when both give, both are receiving, it becomes naturally reciprocal. Giving not to please or out of obligation but because that person is important and deserves care, affection, and everything I have to offer.

Choose to be with someone who also chooses to be with you, every day. Relationships require care, presence, and commitment, but they should never cost your peace or mental health. Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do; after all, if you are 'empty', you have nothing to give...

Be FULL of yourself , be a fool in love.

Choose to be with someone who not only admires your body but sees your soul, respects your silence, and treats your heart with care.

To love and be loved should be light, even on difficult days. Be the one and stay with someone you feel safe to expose your fears, who you can ask for advice, someone you feel secure being exactly who you are.

One day someone will come and show you that love is companionship, affection, joy, and not pain, and while that someone doesn't arrive... take care of yourself, love yourself, and learn to enjoy your own company. Lots of Joy ANA