ENOUGH is ENOUGH ?!

Sometimes we go through relationships or are in one (if you're in one like this, read twice) where you give, you invest, you are there present in body and soul and it's not enough... it’s never reciprocal, you feel like you're living in the shadows or even becoming lifeless and without energy.

You feel uncomfortable, walking on eggshells, never knowing what the mood will be in the next chapter or the next approach. Life starts to turn gray, your plans no longer exist, your gym, your life, you just feel exhausted, as if resting for days wouldn’t be enough.

Has this happened to you?

You’re never pretty enough, slim enough, never smart enough, there's always something missing, the other person never notices the gift that is your presence. That’s right, then you want to talk more but fear the reaction, or if you do speak, they reacts with aggression or indifference or undermines everything they heard from you, as if how you feel there isn’t important.

Sometimes it's really never enough, and you won't be enough for this person or situation, and that's okay. Embrace, take care of yourself, understand that it's about the other person and it's not your job to heal them, but please, heal yourself, heal yourself of what makes you connect to this kind of pattern, heal yourself to have a happy life, to be seen, to be appreciated, and to be loved just the way you are... Don't blame yourself for the toxic ties you cultivate and have cultivated; learn from them, understand why you connected and connect with this type of person... there is a subliminal message in every dysfunctional relationship, and that is the key to everything. Sometimes it is in a dynamic that is familiar to us, and that's why we seek the same, because it is familiar, but the 'familiar' can be terrible; it can be exactly what you need to avoid and heal.

Sometimes we don't feel strong enough to get out of this dynamic, sometimes it involves money, sometimes it involves children, family, social circle, but do you really think it's worth living in this daily stress, seeking external approval from someone so broken?

When we don't know ourselves, don't know our worth or lack self-esteem, we often end up accepting little, the famous crumbs, but is that really what you want to just survive?

Self-knowledge, help, support, therapies, and a lot of true analysis of ourselves can work miracles... and it's a big package, a Pandora's box filled with intertwined threads and full of us, but once you start to untangle, you begin to realize that there is so much more to organize and in this movement you will grow and put this internal world in order to become the best version of yourself.

"You're an amazing gift delivered to the wrong address, let's ship you to the right one".

And here’s my song:

BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF by Lenzspot

Dance and believe, there's a lot of cool stuff inside you to share. ... Strength you are brave !

ANA